The way you are

Here's something interesting that I stumbled across on youtube..

Bruno Mars Just the way you are (Hokkien cover)

I swear the only reason why this is not yet having millions of hits is cuz there aren't enough hokkien nang on the net lol.

Many people have been coming up to me lately and pouring out their troubles. Well to you folks out there, perhaps the first step in loving anything/one is to accept yourself and say "YES everyone else sucks!" haha. Kidding... But on a side note to everything (well.. most...) there are always two sides.

My advice is, when it comes to a point whereby you feel that you've loved that thing or person to the best of your abilities but still don't feel the necessary reciprocation (and wanna give up); it is not that you are lacking true love.

True love requires nurturing and communication (aka 2 way)

You are NOT a shallow person if you demand some respect/reward.

It is thus perhaps it is the other party/hobby/interest is just not deserving enough to be a part of this 2-way function.

If you have indeed done your best, you are already great just the way you are and at least you've tried. So don't go begging for whats not attainable or you will never see the greater skies.

Keep loving the people around you and the things that you do. Most importantly keep loving yourself as well.

jj